Wanna Get Out of the Wilderness?
Could this be the right Antidote for you?
The entire conversation I had with Dee came down to this…
Once you’re determined to transcend White supremacy…to break free from its hold on your life and the life of those you love, the only thing left to do is to develop and commit to a plan…
…and surround yourself with the right tools and community.
Sounds simple enough…right?!? LOL
Well it is…
It’s just not easy.
Changing your narrative is more than simply agreeing with a particular perspective. It’s about embodying that perspective…making that perspective the foundation of how you interact with the world.
With the Exodus narrative, you don’t have to think about how you live it out…
It’s part of culture. It’s engrained in us all.
But you now see how that narrative applies to the Black experience in America…right?
When you think about our history in America and our journey as a people, you see the Exodus…
You see your own version of the Exodus.
Getting out of your hometown…your old neighborhood…your family! (LOL)
Changing your narrative means changing the way you view the world and your place within the world…
Changing your narrative takes confronting your past, reconciling it to the present and reframing your future. It means abandoning your old worldview for a new one.
And when you break through, like T’Challa you realize that you cannot protect yourself by isolating yourself from the struggles of others. You realize that the gifts and talents that have advanced you in your journey to freedom need to be shared and taught so that others might find their way. You realize that as others begin to embrace freedom for themselves, it gives greater security to your own freedom.
It takes effort. It’s not an easy transition. You will fail…and you will succeed…
…I spend a lot of time reading the writings and lives of the ancient fathers and mothers of the church. I learn a lot from their lives and sayings…
While I may struggle believing that I can become like Christ…I mean: Christ is God after all. How wild would I be…how presumptuous to believe I could become like God…wasn’t that the root of the Fall of Adam and Eve in the Garden?
I can, however, believe that it’s possible to become like the Holy Fathers and Mothers of the Church…
Men and women who were definitely human – and only human…who by the Power of the Holy Spirit and their commitment to the faith were able to fight temptation and embrace grace in the fullest sense.
Their stories are inspiring and hopeful…
There was a story of some monks in a monastery. They rarely came out, except to get the necessities for life that they couldn’t make inside.
People would come from all over Egypt to learn from the monks about life…
Hoping to catch the monks outside of the monastery, they’d ask their questions and hope to gain wisdom.
On one occasion, a monk was outside and met by a man who had come from Alexandria. His question was simple:
Father, what do you all do in there all day?
The monk’s somber response was simple and profound:
My child, we fall down and we get up…
And because they know that they fall…because they are determined to get back up…they also understand the importance of being part of a community that is committed to supporting each other as they fall and helping each other to get back up and continue striving to overcome the world…
Which path do you choose?
To emancipate yourself from mental slavery takes discipline. This discipline must be both learned and practiced. And to make this type of discipline a consistent part of your life takes community.
As we fall, we should gain greater awareness of why we fall…we causes us to fall.
Then we can find the necessary supports…
As we get back up from our falls, we should become better at standing and walking forward…
We should get stronger to carry our cross onward and upward…to the Promised Land.
Through this process, we learn how to fight the good fight that will liberate us from White supremacy. And we train ourselves to remain free.
And we should understand that this freedom – true freedom – takes diligent and consistent effort…
If White supremacy is a system that has oppressed non-Whites for hundreds of years (and it is)…if systemic and institutional racism are things that have prevailed since Columbus sailed the ocean blue back in 1492 (and they are)…
…then we’re talking about breaking free from an ideology that has had nearly 530 years to embed itself into the fabric of society and culture…our ways of thought and being.
So the key to being our own best friend in overcoming White supremacy is to intentionally engage in conversation and study that reframes our foundational perspective on interacting with White society.
It takes a new narrative…
It takes a faith that is not rooted in Exodus…that won’t condition you to run in fear, or to dim your light so you don’t shine to bright and scare White folks…
It takes a faith that will equip you to stand firm…
It takes a faith that will train you to fight against and protect your family from White supremacy…
And the foundation is to embrace a faith perspective that is untainted by and free from White supremacist thought.
I’ve spent the last 12 years falling down and getting back up…
…freeing myself from White supremacy…
From the supremacy that was within me…from the supremacy that was around me.
I’ve lost battles to White supremacy…
I’ve won battles against White supremacy…
So hear me when I say: even once you break free: you have to continue to fight, in order to remain free.
My journey has taught me the things I’ve been sharing with you…
…and there’s so much more I’d love to share with those of you who have made up your minds to “leave Babylon and come.”
Those of you who have determined to “free your minds so the rest could follow…” LOL
So I want to invite you to walk the Way of Sheba with me…
Remember back when I told you about Makeda, the Queen of Sheba?
…and how the Lord said that she would rise in the judgement of this generation…
I believe that the Lord has positioned Black people in America and charged us to dismantle White supremacy…
I get that belief from the biblical narrative that I think is more appropriate for Black people in America than the Exodus story.
I call it the Joseph Theory
The story of Joseph, son of Jacob, is about a son that was sold into slavery by his brothers. From there, he was oppressed and lied on and left to die in prison for a crime he did not commit. He rose from the concrete – or from the mud…from the bottom of society in order to take power in Egypt and save Egypt from destruction by famine. By saving Egypt, Joseph ultimately saved the known world from famine…
Joseph Made Egypt Great (Again)…
Like Joseph, we – Black Americans – were sold into slavery by our brothers and sisters. From there, we have been oppressed and lied upon and left to die at the bottom of the barrel in America. Yet – also like Joseph – we have been able to rise to positions of power and influence in the land of our oppression.
Think about that for a moment…
Isn’t out story…the narrative of the Black Experience in America…very similar to the history of Joseph?
I believe that – like Joseph – God allowed us to experience all we have experienced in America and brought us to these positions of power and influence in order to “Make America Great” and save the lives of many…
…to free the world from White supremacy…
I believe that God has charged us to fulfill the prophecy of the Queen of Sheba and “rise in the judgement of this generation.”
This is the Charge to Keep we have…
I think it’s time we embrace that Charge…
…and if you think so too, then I’m inviting you to join me in the Way of Sheba.
As I talk with brothers and sisters around the Country, one of the big gaps they experience is finding a group of people that are committed to personal and community development that equips our people to finally overcome White supremacy – as a people.
Many of us have determined to overcome White supremacy in our own lives. But that’s not good enough…
We aren’t satisfied till we can effectively pass that freedom on to subsequent generations and to those beyond our own household.
So, I’ve built a mastermind group to condition you to embrace this alternative perspective on the Christian faith while connecting you to likeminded brothers and sisters so that you can expand your sphere of influence.
Here’s what Forbes magazine says about the power of a mastermind:
A mastermind group is designed to help you navigate through challenges using the collective intelligence of others.
This group will remain small…
…I only accept a max of 25 people at a time.
This way we can keep laser focused on both your personal development and the development of the cohort. You will be better equipped to leverage your power and influence in transformative ways…
Freeing yourself, your family and those around you from the burdens of White supremacy…
You’ll also gain a cohort of brothers and sisters from around the Country, who you can trust to also be committed to true and lasting freedom.
Imagine the possibilities you’ll achieve for yourself and for others…
So here’s a breakdown of the Way of Sheba Mastermind:
- A personalized Promised Land Road Map & accountability plan for your journey through the wilderness
- Composed over two sessions, this road map will outline & give strategy on the areas to address that will get your life on track, making suggestions of resources for development in each area. After the two sessions, I’ll take about 3-5 days to review & think & pray. Then I’ll send you the written roadmap that we will go over for clarity’s sake in a third session.
- Quarterly retreats to the beach
- Three times per year, we’ll retreat to an exclusive beach resort in Florida for relaxation, rejuvenation and in-person workshops covering spirituality, marriage & family life, politics/civic engagement and economic empowerment. These retreats will provide focused rest that gives you fresh perspective on the areas that are important to breaking free from White supremacy and enhancing your freedom.
- Quarterly Book Club for the cohort covering spirituality, marriage & family life, politics/civic engagement and economic empowerment
- To support our group work and continue intentionally building our rapport between in-person sessions, we’ll read and discuss books that stretch our thinking on how we define and find freedom for ourselves and our people.
- Unlimited & as needed access to me as your personal pastor via video conference, voice, email, and text
- Things happen in life…and they don’t happen on a schedule. Having a personal pastor means having someone to call, text, message, when things come up…to help you maintain perspective and remain accountable to your journey. As part of this Mastermind, you will have first available access to me.
- 10 months of monthly video conference calls, for yourself and your household
- In these monthly calls, we will focus on one of the specific areas of your Promised Land Road Map for deep exploration. We all know we need to pull away more to think deeply and intentionally about where we’ve been…where we are…where we’re going. These sessions will help you carve out space and time for that introspection, and they will help me know you better…to serve you better.
- Truly “On Demand” Courses
- Unlimited access to a continuously growing catalogue of faith development courses & studies
- Have a particular study need? Ask for a specialized course! As a Way of Sheba Mastermind member you will be able to request courses & studies in the areas you need.
- Hand-picked books & other media for personalized study to help you strengthen your journey
- As we become more attune to one another spiritually and I begin to know you better and understand your particular growth opportunities, I will identify and send you personal development resources that will help you take advantage of the opportunities uncovered by your Promised Land Road Map.
- Exclusive online forum
- Not a Facebook forum…but a secure and private forum on Jahbread.com, will enable us to communicate with one another and form relationships to help each other in both our respective and shared journeys.
- A cohort of likeminded brothers and sisters for exponential growth and to share in your journey!
Does the Way of Sheba sound like a good addition to aid your journey to the Promised Land? If so, I’d love to have you join the crew…
NOTE: If you don’t receive the invite email within 15 minutes (be sure to check your spam folder), shoot me an email.